If you want to cleanse your soul, this is the place to confess your sins. Clear your conscience in the comfort of your own home, and tell us what you did.
You are loved and accepted here. So let's hear it. ;D
i poured sugar in your gas tank.
Im a kinda gay sometimes
I touch my dick then smell my fingers sometimes.
i masturbate a lot...no big deal...but i wanted to contribute here...
Hi...my name is Cyn. I masturbate alot too.... I have a hand held showerhead solely for selfish reasons.....
I feel like I'm at an AA meeting.
HAHAHA!!!!!
I create my own long porn movies out of small free porn clips.
I find Mozla attractive.
I think I might like that song "Grillz" by Nelly and that Paul Wall guy...
I find myself singing "Smile for me daddy" in that goofy chicks voice in the song.
ok I think I need to go listen to some NIN now, to clean my soul now that I have admitted that....
I deleted Kelly on msn, Only cause she deleted me though ;)
I deleted Liam only because he hate's me
:P
lol Kelly... Cleanse yer soul!!
Confession: I have my own homemade pron. 8))
Music confession..... I love the song Wherever You Are by...... *whispers* Winnie the Pooh.....
I'll admit I kinda like Candy Shop too, but somehow I feel I need to immediatly look for a pole to swing on or Stef's Lap.
I don't think I would go as far as having it as my ring tone though.
I listen to Deftones.
I like to lie to people. be it my parents, my girlfriend, friends or whoever.
yes, that's true about lie^^^
last night i got fingered by a 21 year old aquarius...
last night I dreamed about being in a foursome with kelly, cyn and mary :-[...
i dont do anything "important" sober
ive driven around with a suspended liscense going on 3 years now
i hate america
i havent called anyone this year thats related to me to wish them happy holidays or berfdays
i still get spooked when watching ' unsolved mysteries' when they have ghost stories and shit
i love vh1s reality shows
i blow all my extra money on drugs instead of saving it
i get nervous alot of the time talking to people i dont know
i have a delveloping coke habit
i lie to myself on a daily basis
whenever beasting it out from behind i always wanna stick my thumb in poopchute
Quote from: hydroponic82 on Jan 13, 2007, 09:10 PM
i dont do anything "important" sober
i blow all my extra money on drugs instead of saving it
i have a delveloping coke habit
i lie to myself on a daily basis
if your being honest.. i totally understand were your coming from..
for me its the partying and drugs together, that make it so hard to give up...
i have so much fun..i feel so alive...and nothing else matters..its like, im waiting for something bad to happen to me, in order to stop.
maybe we should go to rehab.
......ya. right.
Quote from: Layla on Jan 13, 2007, 09:15 PM
its like, im waiting for something bad to happen to me, in order to stop.
exactly. i feel it WILL take something tragic
Quote from: Layla on Jan 13, 2007, 09:15 PM
maybe we should go to rehab.
......ya. right.
^ i was talking to a good friend of mine about this...and it was scary because he said, when you get THAT FAR, to the point were its going to take something tragic to change your lifestyle/drug habits. you need help.
well noone can 'help' you until you decide to help yourself. thats the advice i always get from people trying to ' help'.
ill just wait for the tragic shit .
the way i see it is, im going to die someday, life will fall into place, follow its destiny... so im gonna live it up. i like to feel good...i like to HAVE THE TIME OF MY fucking LIFE....unfortunately, the right drugs make everything 10x BETTER.
Quote from: hydroponic82 on Jan 13, 2007, 09:10 PM
i get nervous alot of the time talking to people i dont know
I always forget their names when they tell it to me..
I hate this world most of the time, or what people make of it.
I'm scared of these little girls from horror movies. And with scared I mean I get all freaked out as if my life was in danger..
I dance alone in my room til my clothes are wet wet wet..
I'm lazy and sometimes unreliable (which pisses me off about myself..)
When i'm upset,I like to bring others down with me
I like to tell myself that I like being a lone in my life, but in reality, I really want someone.
Quote from: Jerry_Curls on Jan 14, 2007, 03:35 AM
I like to tell myself that I like being a lone in my life, but in reality, I really want someone.
that bag of weed is always there for you.
spending all the money i have for alcohol
Occasionally, I wonder what it would sound like if I snapped my cat's neck.
Wow, it sounds even more fucked up when I actually say it.
i thought about putting my dog who i love like no other, in the oven... just to see if i could actually bring myself to do it.
* Im still scared of girls
* I still cry when listening to the following songs:
Pennyroyal Tea - Nirvana
Nutshell - Alice In Chains
* I sometimes (usualy) have sick/morbid thoughts and Im really scared that one I'll do them.
* I wonder what it would be like to have a gay relationship
* Im often dwarfed by the size of our lifes
* I hide pot from my girlfriend so I'll have more
* I once played a girl Sliver from Nirvana and said I wrote it
* I masterbated in church once
* I get really really shy around people and they think Im a snob
* I stole from a church once
* I like taking poos in hairdryers at motels, so that the next person who uses it will get splattered with poo.
* After being together for 10 years, Im still head over heels in love with my girlfriend.
* I masterbate while my g/f is asleep next to me.
* I sometimes think of my g/f sister and her mum when we have sex!
Quote from: tension_the_wire on Jan 14, 2007, 08:57 PMI like taking poos in hairdryers at motels, so that the next person who uses it will get splattered with poo.
Genius.
I'm gonna have to try that one.
Quote from: You Fail Me on Jan 14, 2007, 09:18 PM
Quote from: tension_the_wire on Jan 14, 2007, 08:57 PMI like taking poos in hairdryers at motels, so that the next person who uses it will get splattered with poo.
Genius.
I'm gonna have to try that one.
\
Just make sure you poo IN FRONT of the fan part!
I got this from Mike Patton....he used to do it!
Quote from: You Fail Me on Jan 14, 2007, 09:18 PM
Quote from: tension_the_wire on Jan 14, 2007, 08:57 PMI like taking poos in hairdryers at motels, so that the next person who uses it will get splattered with poo.
Genius.
HAHAHA!!!!!
Too bad you cant be there to see it happen.
I just finished off my band. We were doing pretty fucking good too, but then again my heart wasn't in it.
Easy come, easy go as they say
* I also randomaly smite and applaud people. The system is such a waste of time anyway...sure Im gonna exploit it.
* Last week I broke the skin on my drummers brand new Vinnie Paul signiture drum. I put it back in the case and didn't say anything when he flipped out.
* My Kirsty (my g/f) and I often quite naughty and hardly ever act my age. Im 30!
* And Law, I know exactly what you mean. At least you broke up at the height...
its better to burn out than it is to fade away - Neil Young
Quote from: tension_the_wire on Jan 14, 2007, 08:57 PM
* After being together for 10 years, Im still head over heels in love with my girlfriend.
* I masterbate while my g/f is asleep next to me.
* I sometimes think of my g/f sister and her mum when we have sex!
Ouch! That would hurt me like nothing else.. My sister had a shitty boyfriend for three or four years or so. He was obsessed with sex.. He had no problem masturbating next to her, telling her what a bad girl friend she is.. I hated that guy cause he destroyed something in her that surely will never heal..
Quote from: rxqueen on Jan 14, 2007, 11:51 PM
Quote from: tension_the_wire on Jan 14, 2007, 08:57 PM
* After being together for 10 years, Im still head over heels in love with my girlfriend.
* I masterbate while my g/f is asleep next to me.
* I sometimes think of my g/f sister and her mum when we have sex!
Ouch! That would hurt me like nothing else.. My sister had a shitty boyfriend for three or four years or so. He was obsessed with sex.. He had no problem masturbating next to her, telling her what a bad girl friend she is.. I hated that guy cause he destroyed something in her that surely will never heal..
What! Its not like I tell her about who Im thinking about. Its not like I do it a lot.
Its why Im confessing...so I can be forgiven!
I might be a stink boyfriend, but I've never once mistreated her.
god damn...
I know you don't tell it to her! God, I'm sure you wouldn't be together anymore then.. All that matters is that you love her..
Quote from: law on Jan 14, 2007, 10:09 PM
I just finished off my band. We were doing pretty fucking good too, but then again my heart wasn't in it.
Easy come, easy go as they say
What?! You left? Or the band split up? Explain please...
A confession that will interest rxqueen a lot...
After considering it for almost a year, I finally decided to stop covering my hair about two weeks ago. I am of the opinion that it's not actually a rule in my religion, and that it's more of a cultural thing.
^^^^ your a star Zara
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 15, 2007, 01:37 AM
A confession that will interest rxqueen a lot...
After considering it for almost a year, I finally decided to stop covering my hair about two weeks ago. I am of the opinion that it's not actually a rule in my religion, and that it's more of a cultural thing.
AAH!!! I want to seee!!!!! ;)
I concur!
To the picture thread!
Quote from: You Fail Me on Jan 15, 2007, 04:03 AM
I concur!
To the picture thread!
Hahaha... all in good time my friend, all in good time...
Wow.
I should've known you'd turn up at the opportune moment.
Quote from: law on Jan 14, 2007, 10:09 PM
I just finished off my band. We were doing pretty fucking good too, but then again my heart wasn't in it.
Easy come, easy go as they say
I hear that. We're still slugging it out but shit, it ain't as fun as you'd imagine. We been having gigs cancelled on us too. We're meant to be making a comeback in our area but everything's just going wrong.
I'm tired of drums too.
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 15, 2007, 01:37 AM
A confession that will interest rxqueen a lot...
After considering it for almost a year, I finally decided to stop covering my hair about two weeks ago. I am of the opinion that it's not actually a rule in my religion, and that it's more of a cultural thing.
Oh Zara!!! I wanna see tooo!!! =o)
Quote from: devilinside on Jan 15, 2007, 02:04 AM
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 15, 2007, 01:37 AM
A confession that will interest rxqueen a lot...
After considering it for almost a year, I finally decided to stop covering my hair about two weeks ago. I am of the opinion that it's not actually a rule in my religion, and that it's more of a cultural thing.
AAH!!! I want to seee!!!!! ;)
!!!
LEMME SEE!
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 15, 2007, 01:31 AM
Quote from: law on Jan 14, 2007, 10:09 PM
I just finished off my band. We were doing pretty fucking good too, but then again my heart wasn't in it.
Easy come, easy go as they say
What?! You left? Or the band split up? Explain please...
Nah it's all folded. Shame with Kerrang appearance and Carling academy coming up too but there was a lot of bullshit surrounding it, I want a fresh start to be honest.
@TD: yeah it is seriously hard work, people don't realise it. Writing songs and management demanding "we want 25 songs outta you asap" and its like I find it hard working with certain people. See what I do next hehe.
not gonna visit school without a reason. i' sorry about it.
nah, don't feel sorry at all.
Quote from: law on Jan 15, 2007, 05:20 PM
@TD: yeah it is seriously hard work, people don't realise it. Writing songs and management demanding "we want 25 songs outta you asap" and its like I find it hard working with certain people. See what I do next hehe.
Bro, I know exactly what your talking about. We're starting to get stuck in all the shit we've tried to avoid our whole lifes!
It is really hard for musicians...all we've ever wanted to do is play our music and people don't understand it. They just want more and you end up hating your music cause there are all these labels and expectations put onto your shoulders.
I've broken my band up twice now because it just got too much for me...you go do some gigs and your treated like a rockstar. But 'they' (exec. etc) make you pay the bill with the one thing that is the most dearest....your art!
Music shouldn't never ever have a $$ put on it!!!!
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 15, 2007, 01:37 AM
A confession that will interest rxqueen a lot...
After considering it for almost a year, I finally decided to stop covering my hair about two weeks ago. I am of the opinion that it's not actually a rule in my religion, and that it's more of a cultural thing.
i agree with you. my friend stopped wearing it two years ago. she didn't think it made any difference. she said something about being modest in your actions rather than your clothes. at the end of the day that was more important.
plus in my area, all the girls that cover their hair are the biggest hypocrites. they wear so much make up that you would have to dig six feet to get to their real face and their clothes are always super tight. some of them wear body suits. BODY SUITS!! they'd be like, 'covering my hair is apart of my religion, but it's totally ok that i have nine feet of make-up and everyone can see my panty line and my lumpy arse.'
Quote from: Mazzy on Jan 16, 2007, 09:01 AM
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 15, 2007, 01:37 AM
A confession that will interest rxqueen a lot...
After considering it for almost a year, I finally decided to stop covering my hair about two weeks ago. I am of the opinion that it's not actually a rule in my religion, and that it's more of a cultural thing.
i agree with you. my friend stopped wearing it two years ago. she didn't think it made any difference. she said something about being modest in your actions rather than your clothes. at the end of the day that was more important.
plus in my area, all the girls that cover their hair are the biggest hypocrites. they wear so much make up that you would have to dig six feet to get to their real face and their clothes are always super tight. some of them wear body suits. BODY SUITS!! they'd be like, 'covering my hair is apart of my religion, but it's totally ok that i have nine feet of make-up and everyone can see my panty line and my lumpy arse.'
Haha.
Yeah I wore it for over 4 years... for the first couple of years I enjoyed wearing it but the last couple of years I realised it was more of a hindrance than a help, and it didn't make much of a difference in the way it was intended. And like you said, your body is more attractive than your hair so it's more important to cover that modestly than it is to cover your hair.
I basically think you should dress in accordance with what is considered modest by the society in which you live. In the west, showing your hair would never be considered immodest, but if you went to Saudi for example, in certain areas it would be immodest for you to even show your face since no women do (in certain places). For the record I disagree with the principle of covering your face - in fact I think it's stupid and it infuriates me when people try to say it's ordained by the religion - it isn't. But in order to be modest, I think it's necessary to wear it in places where all women do. I hope that made some sense.
That last thing, you're right about it. I can see why when you're in a big group of women that all wear it, you might be seen as unmodest.
Quote from: Moz La Punk on Jan 16, 2007, 09:47 AM
That last thing, you're right about it. I can see why when you're in a big group of women that all wear it, you might be seen as unmodest.
Yeah, if I went out with my friends who cover their hair I'd cover mine too (with a hat or something).
I just can't understand why you'd do something like cover your hair or your body. It doesn't make sense to me. It won't do either because I'm uninformed when it comes to religion, I'll admit that immediately. But I mean we're born naked. It takes away from the simplicity of life and us as human beings. I'd walk around naked if I didn't get taken down by nazis. Sorry, I mean the police.
Actually nah, I wouldn't.. I hate myself naked.. But that's only 'cause I live in a society that deems not wearing clothes in day to day life just wrong. It's not wrong, it's right. Wearing clothes is wrong.
Mazzy, you got a nudist brother yeah? Next time you see him shake his hand for me. Make sure it's his hand before you shake though.
I'm pro nakedness.
I understand where you're coming from.
The reason I have issues about it is because sex outside marriage is not allowed in Islam, and obviously the naked body is an attractive thing, so when you cover it you're less attractive and sex outside marriage is less of a temptation to people.
And now you probably don't understand why sex outside marriage isn't allowed, and I could explain but you wouldn't agree which is fair enough, but basically it comes down to a difference of opinion.
Yea, but the fact that it is suggested that men have more lust for sex when they see more naked skin (which could be true), is because its so unordinairy to show yourself naked these days. If everyone would walk around naked all the time, men wouldn't get even hornier when they see it. Because they're used to it then. So we created this problem ourselves.
Then again, if we would never have worn clothes, we would still be extremely, and I do mean extremely, hairy.
That's true.
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
If we wouldnt wear clothes we would have had enough fur to be resistant against the cold. Duh.
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
I also agree with that.
Quote from: Moz La Punk on Jan 16, 2007, 12:22 PM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
If we wouldnt wear clothes we would have had enough fur to be resistant against the cold. Duh.
Yeah but it would take generations and generations for us to develop enough 'fur' to become resistant to it...
Quote from: ToneDef on Jan 16, 2007, 10:26 AM
I'm pro nakedness.
Haha, all this nakedness stuff could come from me. I agree with you Trav. If it wasn't so unusual I'd walk naked all the time, but it would obviously feel weird cause we're not used to it. And everyone would stare as if he saw aliens. A friend of mine was all shocked cause I took sunbaths only with a panty on last summer.. (it was a secluded place though, there was only one family with me, and the man was like :O all the time) She also freaked out when she saw my cherry waves pics, maybe she just doesn't like my breasts, I don't know..
And moz is right with the fur thing. In 'a few' years humans won't have hair on the legs, arms and armpits anymore. Eyebrows and lashes are there to protect the eye from dust and shit, but nearly all hair we've got isn't needed anymore..
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 16, 2007, 12:37 PM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
I also agree with that.
Quote from: Moz La Punk on Jan 16, 2007, 12:22 PM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
If we wouldnt wear clothes we would have had enough fur to be resistant against the cold. Duh.
Yeah but it would take generations and generations for us to develop enough 'fur' to become resistant to it...
Exactly, We'd be dead before we could even develop fur, DUR.
then maybe take off not all the cloth but for expamle only boots and hats... our sons will refuse wearing t-shirts and so on... our grandgrand x 10 sons will develop fur for sure.
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 01:02 PM
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 16, 2007, 12:37 PM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
I also agree with that.
Quote from: Moz La Punk on Jan 16, 2007, 12:22 PM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
If we wouldnt wear clothes we would have had enough fur to be resistant against the cold. Duh.
Yeah but it would take generations and generations for us to develop enough 'fur' to become resistant to it...
Exactly, We'd be dead before we could even develop fur, DUR.
Thats not what I mean. If we shouldnt have worn clothes to begin with, we would still have that fur. DUUURRR
Quote from: Moz La Punk on Jan 16, 2007, 01:19 PM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 01:02 PM
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 16, 2007, 12:37 PM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
I also agree with that.
Quote from: Moz La Punk on Jan 16, 2007, 12:22 PM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
If we wouldnt wear clothes we would have had enough fur to be resistant against the cold. Duh.
Yeah but it would take generations and generations for us to develop enough 'fur' to become resistant to it...
Exactly, We'd be dead before we could even develop fur, DUR.
Thats not what I mean. If we shouldnt have worn clothes to begin with, we would still have that fur. DUUURRR
And we'd probably still be making fires by rubbing sticks together.
Sounds fun.
I confess... I'm only wearing underwear right now.
Can we rub something else ? Now that would be fun too...
rubbing meat sticks together?
Quote from: aenemic on Jan 16, 2007, 03:34 PM
I confess... I'm only wearing underwear right now.
So am I, so am I...
Quote from: aenemic on Jan 16, 2007, 03:42 PM
rubbing meat sticks together?
Wann rub mine man ? ;)
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
Yes...although there are other means of obtaining warmth. Some indigenious tribes who live in rather cold areas wouldn't wear much clothing. I think something in us (maybe even something evolutionary - or de-evolutionary) has made us 'need' clothing. Its original purpose however, is warmth.
In fact, our whole existence and society is perpetuated toward warmth. (Ever read Walden by Thoreau?) Think about it, we eat food for energy to keep warm, we go to work to afford clothing and housing to stay warm. (of course these are all based on survival. survival = warmth). We've moved from elementary needs, to desires though. We desire material possessions to keep us warm in a superficial way, we desire superfluous relationships to keep us emotionally warm and superfluous praise to keep our egos warm.
What if we focused more on obtaining elementary needs, instead of all the other garbage that has grown from our survival. Then again life is about more than simple survival... As you say clothing is, it's about identity and style. But the best way to be a nonconformist is to wear something completely different than "what's cool." What if we began thinking that? Maybe people would stop having mindless sex, and pursuing superficial relationships based on "what's ur favourite colour." Maybe people would delve deeper and really fall in love...and warm their souls to the core.
Quote from: Sleep on Jan 16, 2007, 04:57 PM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 16, 2007, 12:06 PM
If we didn't wear clothes, We'd probably freeze and die, So i disagree with the whole...
''Wearing clothes is wrong''
We have them for more than one reason.
Yes...although there are other means of obtaining warmth. Some indigenious tribes who live in rather cold areas wouldn't wear much clothing. I think something in us (maybe even something evolutionary - or de-evolutionary) has made us 'need' clothing. Its original purpose however, is warmth.
In fact, our whole existence and society is perpetuated toward warmth. (Ever read Walden by Thoreau?) Think about it, we eat food for energy to keep warm, we go to work to afford clothing and housing to stay warm. (of course these are all based on survival. survival = warmth). We've moved from elementary needs, to desires though. We desire material possessions to keep us warm in a superficial way, we desire superfluous relationships to keep us emotionally warm and superfluous praise to keep our egos warm.
What if we focused more on obtaining elementary needs, instead of all the other garbage that has grown from our survival. Then again life is about more than simple survival... As you say clothing is, it's about identity and style. But the best way to be a nonconformist is to wear something completely different than "what's cool." What if we began thinking that? Maybe people would stop having mindless sex, and pursuing superficial relationships based on "what's ur favourite colour." Maybe people would delve deeper and really fall in love...and warm their souls to the core.
Whoa that was deep...
Ok let us get back to the confessions and not silly, pervy men claiming nakedness is right ;)
ok my turn... Everyone in my "Real life" thinks I dislike porn.
Truth is.. I like it... and DO watch it... but only... lesbian porn.
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 17, 2007, 12:35 AM
Ok let us get back to the confessions and not silly, pervy men claiming nakedness is right ;)
I'm not a man! :-[
Hmm... I am asexual. Not that I copulate with myself and reproduce. Or that I have both sexual organs. I am of one sex. But I mean my orientation.
Asexuality can be defined as someone who has little or no desire for sex. So most of the relationships I get into are for companionship. I lack sexual attraction. Now that's not to say that I haven't found pleasure in sex...But I am at a state that sex is unappealing to me unless it has a very deep basis.
Let's not get it wrong, asexuals are humyns, thus we have urges and desires like all people, but I suppose my desires are not of a sexual nature but rather something else that I find most people incapable of. Either way...I like textual intercourse and intellectual stimulation, emotional closeness and affection, physical connection in different ways...but sex for me as a general rule is neutral. I understand the reasons for it, to create life, to be close and intimate with a partner, to show love and connection...I feel for me, for now at least...i can do this in other ways...the problem is finding someone who is content with my companionship.
Make fun if you will, I'm comfortable in my own skin.
Would anyone be so bold to confess a deeper truth?
Quote from: Juicy Fruit on Jan 16, 2007, 10:43 AM
I understand where you're coming from.
The reason I have issues about it is because sex outside marriage is not allowed in Islam, and obviously the naked body is an attractive thing, so when you cover it you're less attractive and sex outside marriage is less of a temptation to people.
And now you probably don't understand why sex outside marriage isn't allowed, and I could explain but you wouldn't agree which is fair enough, but basically it comes down to a difference of opinion.
sex outside marriage is considered a sin by many religions. i don't see it that way, which is the reason i'm often referred to as a 'cafeteria christian' so lovingly by my dad. it's totally overblown in my opinion. i believe if two people love each other but know that they are not ready for marriage, they shouldn't feel bad about having intercourse – their heart is in the right place. i do think religion magnifies it to a level that makes today's society, who are more moderate, scared of religion a little. as human beings we change, our religions must change a little too. they can't stay the same while we develop in all aspects of our lives. it's a problem really.
i thought it was strict in christianity but since dating an orthodox jew, it's much much stricter. with orthodox jews, the men cannot touch women outside of marriage. they can hug their mother or sister or an aunt but if it's someone outside that close family circle, it's not permitted. so he wasn't allowed to touch me and when he did, i felt dreadful because he felt dreadful because he felt he was demeaning his beliefs and his religion for me. it was a huge strain and we were so close to actually loving one another. i had no problem with it in the beginning but he catapulted it into this big thing to make it feel like it was my fault. i've always believed whatever your belief is, it's between you and god. that you don't have to live your life scrupulously by some doctrine, which was written thousands and thousands years ago. do good, do good onto others and love each other. that's the sort of thing i believe humanity needs to take from religion. jesus and the beatles got it right, all you need is love. religion leaders shouldn't focus on these petty rules of telling us what the right sexual orientation is, when to have sex and this persistent enforcement of making women cover up as much of themselves to avoid being sexually objectified is deplorable. in countries like saudi arabia, it's almost like those women have no choice. they speak up and they suffer the consequences. it isn't fair, but because it's presented like it is apart of islam it makes it ok for it to be excused. it doesn't and it shouldn't.
there's nothing wrong with what we choose to wear, that's what makes us individuals. there's just a problem with people in our society all over the world who associate any skin exposure, no matter how little, with sexual tendencies.
Quote from: Sleep on Jan 17, 2007, 02:25 AM
Hmm... I am asexual. Not that I copulate with myself and reproduce. Or that I have both sexual organs. I am of one sex. But I mean my orientation.
Asexuality can be defined as someone who has little or no desire for sex. So most of the relationships I get into are for companionship. I lack sexual attraction. Now that's not to say that I haven't found pleasure in sex...But I am at a state that sex is unappealing to me unless it has a very deep basis.
Let's not get it wrong, asexuals are humyns, thus we have urges and desires like all people, but I suppose my desires are not of a sexual nature but rather something else that I find most people incapable of. Either way...I like textual intercourse and intellectual stimulation, emotional closeness and affection, physical connection in different ways...but sex for me as a general rule is neutral. I understand the reasons for it, to create life, to be close and intimate with a partner, to show love and connection...I feel for me, for now at least...i can do this in other ways...the problem is finding someone who is content with my companionship.
Make fun if you will, I'm comfortable in my own skin.
Would anyone be so bold to confess a deeper truth?
i've been asexual since high school. i was the butt of jokes within my circle of friends for a good year. i was outspoken about it so i reaped the consequences. i don't believe in having sex with someone you care nothing for. i don't believe in having sex for fun. i'd rather a nice glass of gin. by sleeping with someone you are giving away a part of yourself to that person because that person is special to you and you are special to them. this is the thought that i got the most flak for. it's hard to have relationships with people when they do want to go there and you don't so i'm focusing on myself right now until someone who understands me comes along. i'm not the sort of person who looks down on people who do have one-night stands and stuff. the most important thing for me is my belief on how i want to live my life but i'm not going to force anything down anyone's throat.
when i meet someone i really feel something for, i would rather sit on their bed with them and talk about everything. kissing and sex never crosses my mind. i would rather a long cuddle and a kiss on the forehead.
i'm a little old fashioned i suppose, which is ironic because i'm assyrian and assyrians were the ones who invented brothels and prostitution.
Quote from: Layla on Jan 13, 2007, 09:35 PM
the way i see it is, im going to die someday, life will fall into place, follow its destiny... so im gonna live it up. i like to feel good...i like to HAVE THE TIME OF MY fucking LIFE....unfortunately, the right drugs make everything 10x BETTER.
I'm not going to go on a tirade at you, or preach to you, or anything of that sort. I just feel like it's necessary for me to say something just to keep my conscious in order. What exactly do you think will fall into place by doing drugs that you know will hurt you physically and emotionally? You already know you have a problem, and I think you're already scared of the problem... so why does feeling good have to be reasoning behind it? Life sucks, but so does life after drugs. The small in between time is fake, it's not real at all. You feel good, but then you come down, and I'm sure feel much worse. Again, I'm trying to not be preachy to you, and I cannot deny I've been addicted to alcohol before, and have done drugs, but that doesn't change the point I'm trying to make. Life is SO fucking beautiful outside of drugs, or alcohol, or mindless sex. If you take a book to a park or forest, or see a movie that touches you, or spend time with loved ones... that's 50 times better than anything you could do to yourself for a quick high. Life is so much more than our own dumb little minds.
Quote from: rxqueen on Jan 17, 2007, 01:41 AM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 17, 2007, 12:35 AM
Ok let us get back to the confessions and not silly, pervy men claiming nakedness is right ;)
I'm not a man! :-[
:D No you just have a thing for Trav.
got damn
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 17, 2007, 08:09 AM
Quote from: rxqueen on Jan 17, 2007, 01:41 AM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 17, 2007, 12:35 AM
Ok let us get back to the confessions and not silly, pervy men claiming nakedness is right ;)
I'm not a man! :-[
:D No you just have a thing for Trav.
Haha, yeah man.. She'll never admit it though. She loves my bad self.
@ skinnypuppy
Yeah life is beautiful, but I hope you're not referring to all drugs. I think moments in life can feel amazing.. so why not smoke a plant and just intensify that feeling so it feels 10X as good? There's no comedown.. No regret.. Just a sense that you've just gotten the maximum amount of emotion out of something. I don't even know what I'm talking about and this isn't even on topic.
i totally steal shit when in stores that i feel have low standards if i feel like it
Quote from: ToneDef on Jan 17, 2007, 08:19 AM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 17, 2007, 08:09 AM
Quote from: rxqueen on Jan 17, 2007, 01:41 AM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 17, 2007, 12:35 AM
Ok let us get back to the confessions and not silly, pervy men claiming nakedness is right ;)
I'm not a man! :-[
:D No you just have a thing for Trav.
Haha, yeah man.. She'll never admit it though. She loves my bad self.
Haha.. Not with the blonde hair though.. :P
I know... That's because it's gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay... :D
i like his hair. it's nice. it makes him look softer and more sensitive.
i think feminine is the word you're looking for tarkil, not gay. i don't think his hair is a homosexual and his hair is not valid enough for an emotion such as happiness.
he could pass for a depressed young man as well. his face is open to interpretation. that's the best thing about him.
Don't worry I'm just joking Maz... He nows he's my bud... :)
i stick my finger in my belly button and smell it
and it smells.. really really bad... like the kinda bad.. when you cant stop smelling it....
Yep..
Haha.
Quote from: Mazzy on Jan 17, 2007, 06:42 AM
when i meet someone i really feel something for, i would rather sit on their bed with them and talk about everything. kissing and sex never crosses my mind. i would rather a long cuddle and a kiss on the forehead.
Amen.
There is much more intimacy and energy in a spiritual, intellectual, emotional and/or mental connection...
well, shame about me being a knob when it comes to conversations. i'm too animated for my own liking sometimes and at other times i'm just too quiet.
plus i talk politics and animal rights for a long period of time. you'd have to tape my mouth to shut me up. oh, and there's this whole thing about me trying to take over the world but that doesn't surface until after the first week of dating.
confession:
i don't mind dying alone. and i have been thinking about getting a brazilian for a while because there's nothing i love more right now than having hot wax all over my va-jay-jay.
Brazilian wax feels great afterwards.. During... ouch a bit... :-\
Quote from: tarkil on Jan 17, 2007, 04:15 PM
Don't worry I'm just joking Maz... He nows he's my bud... :)
Tarkil is my French maid.
I just fell in love with zaz.. <3
Quote from: ToneDef on Jan 18, 2007, 08:28 AM
Quote from: tarkil on Jan 17, 2007, 04:15 PM
Don't worry I'm just joking Maz... He nows he's my bud... :)
Tarkil is my French maid.
Don't mess with Tarkil, cause Tarkil will fuckin' kill you... :D
Quote from: rxqueen on Jan 17, 2007, 11:41 AM
Quote from: ToneDef on Jan 17, 2007, 08:19 AM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 17, 2007, 08:09 AM
Quote from: rxqueen on Jan 17, 2007, 01:41 AM
Quote from: Subliminal on Jan 17, 2007, 12:35 AM
Ok let us get back to the confessions and not silly, pervy men claiming nakedness is right ;)
I'm not a man! :-[
:D No you just have a thing for Trav.
Haha, yeah man.. She'll never admit it though. She loves my bad self.
Haha.. Not with the blonde hair though.. :P
Remember who loves you though miss ;)
me three
I dont like feet....I mean,I dont freak out when other peoples touch me,but i feel uncomfortable when my feet are touched. But I have hella cute toes! HAHAH
i luv feet ;D
sexy sexy