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Title: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 24, 2010, 09:27 PM
http://www.tmz.com/2010/05/24/slipknot-bassist-dead-paul-gray-hotel-room-iowa/ (http://www.tmz.com/2010/05/24/slipknot-bassist-dead-paul-gray-hotel-room-iowa/)


I've never been a fan of Slipknot ( no shit ? ) but I never wished the death to one of the members. Bassist Paul Gray was found dead this morning. I feel sorry for the Slipknot fans out there, maybe there are some here.
Title: Slipknot bassist Paul Gray (#2) found dead in hotel today
Post by: m1nusblindfoLd on May 24, 2010, 09:27 PM
Sucks, been reading this all over the web/Twitter....he was young, too bad..


http://www.whotv.com/news/who-story-slipknot-death-gray-052410,0,4138074.story (http://www.whotv.com/news/who-story-slipknot-death-gray-052410,0,4138074.story)

http://www.kcci.com/entertainment/23659932/detail.html (http://www.kcci.com/entertainment/23659932/detail.html)
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 24, 2010, 09:29 PM
That sucks
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: epistaxis on May 24, 2010, 09:30 PM
Not a fan either, but I feel sorry for the fans and family too.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 24, 2010, 09:32 PM
lol, your name is great
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: m1nusblindfoLd on May 24, 2010, 09:34 PM
Woops sorry for the duplicate thread, but thanks for merging.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Jacob on May 24, 2010, 09:36 PM
np. you made them at the exact same time, so you really couldn't know :P

anyways, this sucks. I used to be a fan but consider everything they did after Iowa to be utter crap. that's besides the point though, they're all really talented musicians (except for Cory) and seem like a good bunch of guys.

RIP.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 24, 2010, 09:45 PM
Cory is talented as shit.  Are you high? 

I totally  understand why people don't like Slipknot ( even though they are a little guilty pleasure of mine ) But I think they are all pretty talented for what they do.  Especially cory.  He has to be one of the best singers out there
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 24, 2010, 09:48 PM
Corey Taylor is a good singer. But one of the best, that's exageration.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Jacob on May 24, 2010, 09:54 PM
I don't think he's useless, but he completely lost his voice with Slipknot and he mostly sounds like shit live these days.

and I kinda want to blame Slipknot's downfall on him. their best material was written before he was even in the band, and once he formed Stone Sour, Slipknot started sounding like them.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 24, 2010, 09:59 PM
Hm.  I don't know.  I think he still sounds pretty dam amazing.  But I haven't heard him live in quite a while. 
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: White Pwny on May 24, 2010, 10:00 PM
I'm a Slipknot fan... and I'm a Stone Sour fan.     How anyone can say that Corey's voice is shit is beyond me.  


Furthermore this isn't about Corey.. its about Paul... 38 is too young... and it's very sad.   I think his girl is pregnant....  Drugs and rock and roll do not mix, folks...    =(


#2, you will be missed.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 24, 2010, 10:04 PM
I'm all about drugs and rock and roll.  38 is too young indeed.  But I'm sure he lived a couple good years in there
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: White Pwny on May 24, 2010, 10:11 PM
Slipknot - Spit It Out - Live At Download 2009 (HQ) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTxhn5yVCUw#)
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 24, 2010, 10:16 PM
I love that song
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: epistaxis on May 24, 2010, 10:16 PM
LOL, panda.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: White Pwny on May 24, 2010, 10:17 PM
Snuff (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXEKuttVRIo#ws)

if you think this song sucks.... or that Corey has no talent..   your ears are broken.  Period.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 24, 2010, 10:20 PM
I like it. But its mood music.  Its pretty dam emo and depressing if you think about it.

Your a total dick for ignoring me on FB btw
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: RoyalDeftonicBoy on May 24, 2010, 10:21 PM
According to the Des Moines Register, Urbandale, Iowa police are investigating the death of SLIPKNOT's bass guitarist at a local hotel.

Paul Dedrick Gray, 38, of Johnston was found dead at approximately 10:50 a.m. today by an employee at TownePlace Suites (pictured below), 8800 Northpark Drive, police said.

There was no evidence of foul play, police said.

According to KCCI.com, the Polk County Medical Examiner's Office is assisting in the death investigation and will perform an autopsy on Tuesday. Toxicology testing will be completed to determine if there were any contributing factors in the death of Gray, police said.

Witnesses reported that items from the hotel room were carried out of the hotel around 2 p.m.

Gray was born in Los Angeles, California, and later moved to Des Moines.

Wikipedia shows that Gray has been married for two years to GodsGirls' Brenna Paul and has a tattoo of her name on his knuckles.

In a December 2009 posting on his MySpace page, Gray revealed that his wife was pregnant with the couple's first child. "I am the happiest man on the face of the earth — literally!" he wrote. He added, "This has been the best Christmas I have ever had!"

In April 2010 it was announced that Paul Gray had joined HAIL!, the supergroup featuring mainstays Tim "Ripper" Owens (BEYOND FEAR, YNGWIE MALMSTEEN, ex-JUDAS PRIEST, ICED EARTH), David Ellefson (MEGADETH) and Andreas Kisser (SEPULTURA). He was supposed to replace the group's original member, David Ellefson, who was unable to take part in HAIL!'s upcoming touring activities due to his renewed collaboration with MEGADETH. At the time, Paul Gray stated about his involvement with HAIL!: "This is going to be amazing! After I heard the news about David reuniting with MEGADETH I touched base with Andreas and everything fell into place pretty immediately. I was excited about what they were doing and their whole attitude is just cool, old school camaraderie and fun and I wanted to share that with them. Fortunately, I had this window of time available as SLIPKNOT are on break so the timing worked perfectly. These guys have been through it all and they represent true metal brotherhood. I like that and I'm glad to now be a part of it. I can't wait, I wish we'd leave tomorrow. These shows are going to kick ass!"

Back in 2003, authorities agreed to drop drug possession charges against Paul Gray in exchange for Gray's acknowledgement that he was on drugs when he was involved in a minor traffic accident (Story#1, Story#2) in the summer of 2003 in Des Moines.

Des Moines police arrested Gray on June 1, 2003 after his car collided with a car at Martin Luther King Jr. Parkway and Carpenter Avenue.

A police report at the time said Gray "had impaired balance, slurred and dull speech, and extremely sleepy and dull behavior."

In the November 2008 issue of Revolver magazine, Gray spoke openly about his struggle with drug addiction and how it affected SLIPKNOT during the songwriting and recording process for both 2001's "Iowa" and 2004's "Vol. 3: The Subliminal Verses".

"I was pissed at Corey [Taylor, SLIPKNOT vocalist] and Jim [Root, SLIPKNOT guitarist] for doing [their side project] STONE SOUR," he said. "I thought, 'Fuck, we should be working on SLIPKNOT.' But we really needed that time apart. During the downtime I played with UNIDA and jammed with friends, but mostly I did a lot of drinking and some drugs — some heavy, heavy drugs...lots of heroin. I was shooting speedballs every day. And then pills. I was on everything, man. In the beginning I kind of had my shit under control, but after a while, no. I became an addict."

He added, "I wrote a bunch of stuff [for 'Vol. 3'] — like I do every record — but I would spend half the time in the bathroom [shooting up]. I'd be trying to play, and I'd fall out of my chair a couple times and fall asleep in the middle of tracking a song. There was a lot of depression going on. I wasn't mad at anybody, but everyone else was and I felt, 'Oh, fuck, my family is falling apart.' This has been the best thing that ever happened to me. And once you get to a certain point with drugs it's fuckin' so hard going through withdrawal. It's not that you don't want to quit. You just can't. Halfway through the record, the band had an intervention on me and I ended up going to rehab."

He continued, "Going through rehab in L.A. kept me good for a little while, but then we got back out on the road and I just knew too many people and I started using a lot again on and off. I had some near-death experiences — nothing I'm gonna go into any detail about — but I definitely pushed it to the very end and I'm still here. I have friends, though, who pushed it just the same way, and they are dead. Finally, I got left in rehab at the end of the arena tour with SHADOWS FALL and LAMB OF GOD and I missed the last six shows. Then, afterwards... Well, idle hands do the devil's work. I met my wife and she stayed with me and helped me, but then I'd full on run with it. Finally she said, 'I can't sit around and watch you kill yourself.' I was living in L.A. at the time, which wasn't helping because it was so easy [to get drugs]. So, I moved back to Iowa with her and went to my doctor and got straightened out. And it's been a good couple years now that I've been clean."







Not a fan of them but he was way too young to be die. Rest in peace.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: White Pwny on May 24, 2010, 10:23 PM
that's the greatest thing about it.... you can rock out.. or you can mellow out.  It's NOT just ONE thing.   Liam is a hugeeee Slipknot fan.. I hope he's cool.  
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: mono on May 24, 2010, 10:28 PM
what a fucking sad notice :/
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Subliminal on May 24, 2010, 11:00 PM
Quote from: White Pwny on May 24, 2010, 10:23 PM
that's the greatest thing about it.... you can rock out.. or you can mellow out.  It's NOT just ONE thing.   Liam is a hugeeee Slipknot fan.. I hope he's cool.   

Thanks Cyn I'm cool, I'm seriously shocked though, I seriously feel like crying.. I can't believe it. Not only was he the core writer of the band, he was also very humble and grateful for his success in Slipknot. Use to read his Myspace blogs and shit, the guy was awesome.

This is the end of Slipknot, they've always said they wouldn't carry on without all original 9 members. I feel really gutted for the guys and his pregnant wife. RIP Paul!


Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: sing blue silver on May 24, 2010, 11:02 PM
i loved slipknot in junior high and paul was always my favorite for some reason. i can't really stand their music anymore but that makes it no less tragic.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 24, 2010, 11:05 PM
The end of Slipknot. Damn, man, I don't like their music but that sure does make you feel something.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 24, 2010, 11:07 PM
Strange to think about
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Subliminal on May 24, 2010, 11:10 PM
Despite the criticisms of Slipknot, I still truly believed their next album would've pushed them to headlining a stadium show (not that it's the ultimate goal in a bands life) but to think that if they should carry on and it happened, it would be without their brother who was there for every stage of it all.

Ahh man it's fuckin' sad :(
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Deftones-argentina on May 24, 2010, 11:34 PM
Paul was one of the most important members of the band concerning work ethic and unity, and as Liam said really humble. I remember reading an interview with him and he was really down to earth and had this cool vibe of somebody who felt blessed. A fucking pitty, another life and a lot of dreams were murdered by drugs again.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Jacob on May 25, 2010, 12:13 AM
listening to the s/t record now. I had forgotten how good some of these songs are.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: White Pwny on May 25, 2010, 01:25 AM
Paul Gray Interview Unmasked (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AeMYJpRDCZE#)

Quote from: Deftones-argentina on May 24, 2010, 11:34 PM
Paul was one of the most important members of the band concerning work ethic and unity, and as Liam said really humble. I remember reading an interview with him and he was really down to earth and had this cool vibe of somebody who felt blessed. A fucking pitty, another life and a lot of dreams were murdered by drugs again.
:(
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 25, 2010, 01:51 AM
That makes me think... We're lucky that Chi is alive...
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: wax on May 25, 2010, 02:12 AM
dio, brit murphys huband, now paul  :'(
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 25, 2010, 04:35 AM
Quote from: White Pwny on May 24, 2010, 10:17 PMif you think this song sucks.... or that Corey has no talent..   your ears are broken.  Period.

My ears aren't broken. I just like GOOD music.

And it's about time these assholes started dying. I've put up with their trash going into my ears for too fucking long.

inb4 flame
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: defTHE1s on May 25, 2010, 04:58 AM
what a fucking sad notice to start the week with... :(
i was thinking a lot of things while reading this news, but i can conclude.... we're lucky CHI is still alive...


we'll miss you, #2 :'(
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 25, 2010, 09:12 AM
Quote from: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 25, 2010, 04:35 AM
And it's about time these assholes started dying.

Please, tell me you weren't serious.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: fireflyry on May 25, 2010, 09:51 AM
Sad news, especially since I read he was expecting a child.

Not the biggest Slipknot fan but I respect them for bringing harder music to the kids, have met many younger metal heads that quote Slipknot as being one of the bands that first got them into metal

Shitloads better than being into The Jonas Brothers or Justin Bieber imho.

Any man that played in Unida gets my respect.

R.I.P
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 25, 2010, 10:48 AM
This is what you see when you type in the slipknot website name in your browser:

(http://img8.imageshack.us/img8/2552/sanstitre1vu.png)

Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 25, 2010, 11:59 AM
The "all hope is gone" in the background seems slightly ironic now

Quote from: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 25, 2010, 04:35 AM
Quote from: White Pwny on May 24, 2010, 10:17 PMif you think this song sucks.... or that Corey has no talent..   your ears are broken.  Period.

My ears aren't broken. I just like GOOD music.

And it's about time these assholes started dying. I've put up with their trash going into my ears for too fucking long.

inb4 flame
and I heart you josh
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: White Pwny on May 25, 2010, 07:08 PM
Psh, Trey you would.....
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 25, 2010, 07:36 PM
Boo hoo hoo, a shitty musician I never even met died. I'm gonna go cry now.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: White Pwny on May 25, 2010, 08:04 PM
I'm not crying....   it's sadness that music that I have been listening to.... is over now...  they will be done. 


Quite similar to what I'm sure some NON Deftones fans were saying when this happened to Chi...  Ohhh boo hoo.. some shitty musician is in a coma... blah blah...  when quite the contrary... he was NOT a shitty musician... and he happened to be a great human being.   

Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: devilinside on May 25, 2010, 08:06 PM
Quote from: White Pwny on May 25, 2010, 08:04 PM
I'm not crying....   it's sadness that music that I have been listening to.... is over now...  they will be done. 


Quite similar to what I'm sure some NON Deftones fans were saying when this happened to Chi...  Ohhh boo hoo.. some shitty musician is in a coma... blah blah...  when quite the contrary... he was NOT a shitty musician... and he happened to be a great human being.   



^5
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 25, 2010, 08:25 PM
Quote from: White Pwny on May 25, 2010, 07:08 PM
Psh, Trey you would.....
It was a little bit funny
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 25, 2010, 09:29 PM
So question then.  Seeing as how I have never really paid enough attention to stuff like this.  It seems like this guy was probably THE big creative force behind slipknot.  Does cory write all of his own lyrics?  Or do other members of the band do it too and he just sings them? 
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Bergerac on May 25, 2010, 11:57 PM
Well, Scissors was my favourite of their songs, and the breakdown at the end I consider to be the heaviest thing done in metal yet. It's not necessarily the loudest, or the fastest, but it's the heaviest because it has the angriest atmosphere of anything. Anyway, getting back to the point, I believe Joey Jordison, the central drummer, wrote the lyrics to Scissors, so I don't imagine Corey does everything. I also believe Shawn Crahan (Clown) was a lyrical contributor. Though those three were the absolute founding members, through all incarnations, weren't they? Paul Joey and Shawn? They're the three originals. I imagine they were a large part of the driving force behind the band. So I believe it'd be even harder to come back from that then if the 9 were a bit more democratically creative, and all original members.

Paul's contributions were often some of my favourite parts. Surfacing isn't a favourite, but I always loved the bass break. The intro to Scissors, the long outro to IOWA. I too stopped with IOWA, I bought Vol. 3 but didn't like it at all, went in a wrong direction as far as I was concerned, but I listened to these guys a lot during college, and in fact Scissors came on Shuffle on my iPod today on my way back from work. As per usual, I rewound the breakdown at the end 3 times to keep listening to it.

Also I believe the point of the picture with Paul is that the 'Hope' in 'All Hope Is Gone' is obscurbed. It basically says 'All Is Gone'.

RIP dude.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: RoyalDeftonicBoy on May 26, 2010, 12:09 AM
There was a Slipknot conference
Here is the link guys
http://www.roadrunnerrecords.com/blabbermouth.net/news.aspx?mode=Article&newsitemID=140671 (http://www.roadrunnerrecords.com/blabbermouth.net/news.aspx?mode=Article&newsitemID=140671)

Very sad :(
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: RoyalDeftonicBoy on May 26, 2010, 12:16 AM
Here is the video

http://www.ustream.tv/recorded/7209258#utm_campaigne=synclickback&source=http://www.slipknot1.com/&medium=7209258 (http://www.ustream.tv/recorded/7209258#utm_campaigne=synclickback&source=http://www.slipknot1.com/&medium=7209258)

Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: defskull on May 26, 2010, 02:27 AM
That was absolutely sad.  They obviously loved him with all their hearts.  Even though they seem to be all tough and bad ass on stage, they're still very real people.  What a terrible time for them.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Jacob on May 26, 2010, 10:13 AM
that was heartbreaking.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 26, 2010, 10:45 AM
Quote from: Jacob on May 26, 2010, 10:13 AM
that was heartbreaking.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 01:04 PM
I'm not trying to be an ass.  But I thought it was a little cheezy
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 26, 2010, 01:50 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 01:04 PM
I'm not trying to be an ass.  But I thought it was a little cheezy


Dude, their best friend is dead, everybody gets " cheezy " when that happens.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Jacob on May 26, 2010, 01:54 PM
is it just me, or did his wife seem like the most calm of them all?

but yeah, like Vesanic said - anyone is entitled to be "cheesy" in a situation like that. it was their best friend, husband, soon to be father and, as they pointed out, the driving force behind the band and the glue that held them together.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: fireflyry on May 26, 2010, 01:57 PM
Quote from: White Pwny on May 25, 2010, 08:04 PM
I'm not crying....   it's sadness that music that I have been listening to.... is over now...  they will be done. 


Quite similar to what I'm sure some NON Deftones fans were saying when this happened to Chi...  Ohhh boo hoo.. some shitty musician is in a coma... blah blah...  when quite the contrary... he was NOT a shitty musician... and he happened to be a great human being.   



Nice post.

It's all about perspective and taking the Slipknot hate out of the equation.

I met a 17 year old the other day who commented on my Deftones cap, said he loved the band, and that Slipknot was the first band that got him into harder music.He moved on from that and had been searching out new harder rock, found the Deftones, and was now checking out as much metal as he could.

Don't be a hater purely because you dislike the music.There's a bit more to it than that imo.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 26, 2010, 02:12 PM
Quote from: Jacob on May 26, 2010, 01:54 PM
is it just me, or did his wife seem like the most calm of them all?


I noticed that too.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 02:17 PM
Quote from: Vesanic on May 26, 2010, 01:50 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 01:04 PM
I'm not trying to be an ass.  But I thought it was a little cheezy


Dude, their best friend is dead, everybody gets " cheezy " when that happens.
Quote from: Jacob on May 26, 2010, 01:54 PM
is it just me, or did his wife seem like the most calm of them all?

but yeah, like Vesanic said - anyone is entitled to be "cheesy" in a situation like that. it was their best friend, husband, soon to be father and, as they pointed out, the driving force behind the band and the glue that held them together.
I don't know.  Sometimes silence is best in situations like this.  As some of the members of the band showed.  I just thought it was a little cliche and almost self indulgent at points.
lets just put it this way.  My friends already have instructions on what to do if I wake up dead.  And they know I would be pissed the fuck off if they acted like that.   
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 26, 2010, 02:39 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 02:17 PM
And they know I would be pissed the fuck off if they acted like that.   


Huh, I don't know, you would be probably more like... dead.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 02:44 PM
I was being ironic.  I said "wake up dead" too.  Thats obviously not possible either.

But see, this is why you talk about these things before hand.  So that they know what would have pissed you off, and they don't do it.  Especially not on national television
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: fireflyry on May 26, 2010, 03:01 PM
It's kind of different if you have a few million fans expecting a response or media reaction.

After all we wouldn't even be discussing the issue if he wasn't in a band.

Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:13 PM
Who says I don't have a few million fans?
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: fireflyry on May 26, 2010, 03:21 PM
lol

Nice to see your still a cocky prick bro.

Respect.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:31 PM
;)

Hey, you're talking to the Sharing Lungs 2008 Best member and sexiest male.  And don't you ever forget it.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:35 PM
No I'm really not trying to sound like a tool though.  I think it was just Cory.  It almost just seemed like he was putting on a show to me or something.  But I'm pretty sure I'm looking way too far into it. 
I hope that video provided some healing for the fans.  There aren't too many artist or celebrities that could die and it would affect me a great deal.  But if something did happen to one of them, I would appreciate something like this.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: fireflyry on May 26, 2010, 03:41 PM
Dang you have chilled.Wicked.

Oh and grats on the sexiest male award but wearing uniforms give you an advantage

: p

I'm far from the biggest fan but it's clear these guys are buds.Having to do crap like a that probably pisses them off more than anyone else.Imagine one of your best buds passing only to then have to do a press release explaining your "feelings" on the matter.

Fuck that.

Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:53 PM
Yeah I recently had a friend die in Afghanistan and I was a little upset that I didn't get to go to his funeral or talk to his father.  But then when I really thought about it, I wouldn't want to have to stand in front of anyone and say what I was thinking or have anyone ask me any questions I may not want to answer.  I think sometimes things are best left in our memories, but not aloud.  No body would every be able to truly understand his impact on my life or the experiences we shared together.  I could tell people that I wouldn't be alive today if it were not for him, but they would not understand the degree of that statement.  As much as I would love to share with his father, the impact his son had on my life, I just know he would never truly know what I was talking about. 
So, maybe thats why some of their statements seemed cliche.  Maybe they wanted to say something to help their fans, but wanted to keep it simple, knowing that if they really put themselves out there, nobody would truly get it.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:54 PM
Oh and yeah the uniform helps for sure.  But I also have a butt chin, so really you guys never stood a chance. 
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 26, 2010, 04:29 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 02:44 PM
I was being ironic.


Me too, moron. ;D

But I agree on one point, I think that Corey was being too... Well I don't know, but whatever it is, it was too much.

But seeing the old Jordison like this was painful, seriously.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: fireflyry on May 26, 2010, 04:42 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:53 PM
I think sometimes things are best left in our memories, but not aloud.  No body would every be able to truly understand his impact on my life or the experiences we shared together.

Fuckin A.

Most of us have had similar experiences.I guess I admire the fact Slipknot made the effort when it's the last thing I would want to do.


Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:54 PM
But I also have a butt chin, so really you guys never stood a chance. 

Variable:

(http://lh4.ggpht.com/lilaliss/R8t7_uZyMDI/AAAAAAAACVo/aulrFVd0_qw/aaron_eckhart.jpg)

Fireflyry:

(http://blogs.villagevoice.com/forkintheroad/21.%2BCarrot%2BTop.jpg)

You win.

:-[
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 26, 2010, 04:47 PM
ROFLMAO.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 05:02 PM
Quote from: Vesanic on May 26, 2010, 04:29 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 02:44 PM
I was being ironic.


Me too, moron. ;D

But I agree on one point, I think that Corey was being too... Well I don't know, but whatever it is, it was too much.

But seeing the old Jordison like this was painful, seriously.
Very well then.  I am running on zero sleep right now.  I had to do a test today where I had to stay up all night.  Then I just decided to stick it out instead of taking a nap after so that I can actually sleep tonight.  So I might be even slower than usual today. 

But what is "the old Jordison"?

Quote from: fireflyry on May 26, 2010, 04:42 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:53 PM
I think sometimes things are best left in our memories, but not aloud.  No body would every be able to truly understand his impact on my life or the experiences we shared together.

Fuckin A.

Most of us have had similar experiences.I guess I admire the fact Slipknot made the effort when it's the last thing I would want to do.


Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:54 PM
But I also have a butt chin, so really you guys never stood a chance. 

Variable:

(http://lh4.ggpht.com/lilaliss/R8t7_uZyMDI/AAAAAAAACVo/aulrFVd0_qw/aaron_eckhart.jpg)

Fireflyry:

(http://blogs.villagevoice.com/forkintheroad/21.%2BCarrot%2BTop.jpg)

You win.

:-[

lol.  Hey, ill take it where I can get it
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Vesanic on May 26, 2010, 05:26 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 05:02 PM
But what is "the old Jordison"?


Joey Jordison, the drummer, the guy with the long hair, next to Gray's wife.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 05:29 PM
Oh, I only knew him by his first name.  but yeah, he seemed a bit beside himself
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: theis on May 26, 2010, 06:36 PM
Weird to see them without masks. The "Clown" looks nothing like I would've imagined.

Gotta admit, even though I've always despised them, their newest album is pretty good.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 26, 2010, 06:49 PM
I didn't give them the time of day for the longest time because of the whole mask gimmick.  I just thought it was lame as shit.  But then I heard Vermillion on the radio one day and really liked it.  So I bought the subliminal verses and listened to it and loved it.  After that I just kind of figured that they were just having fun being a metal band, not taking themselves too serious, and thats kind of cool. 

But the guys wearing the hats and sunglasses.  Do you think they did that because they still really don't want their faces out there?
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: fireflyry on May 26, 2010, 07:05 PM
I dug what Paul said in the vid link.

Would be funny as shit to play a gig, rip the mask off, and then go have a beer with the punters and hear nothing but "Man that band sucked balls".

I'd giggle anyway.

Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: devilinside on May 26, 2010, 07:22 PM
Quote from: fireflyry on May 26, 2010, 04:42 PM
Variable:

(http://lh4.ggpht.com/lilaliss/R8t7_uZyMDI/AAAAAAAACVo/aulrFVd0_qw/aaron_eckhart.jpg)

Fireflyry:

(http://blogs.villagevoice.com/forkintheroad/21.%2BCarrot%2BTop.jpg)

You win.

:-[


HAHA!! Awww...
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: wax on May 26, 2010, 08:34 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 03:54 PM
  But I also have a butt chin,

like my dad always said, 'better to have a butt chin than a chin butt'
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: defskull on May 26, 2010, 09:26 PM
Quote from: Variable on May 26, 2010, 06:49 PM

But the guys wearing the hats and sunglasses.  Do you think they did that because they still really don't want their faces out there?

I was thinking they were wearing sunglasses because they really don't want to be spilling out all these emotions in a press conference and would rather hide it.  I don't know, maybe not.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 27, 2010, 04:06 AM
Quote from: Bergerac on May 25, 2010, 11:57 PM
Well, Scissors was my favourite of their songs, and the breakdown at the end I consider to be the heaviest thing done in metal yet. It's not necessarily the loudest, or the fastest, but it's the heaviest because it has the angriest atmosphere of anything.

Not to butt into this sob-fest thread and ruin the mood again, but I'd just like to point out that that is complete bullshit.

First of all, that is completely a matter of opinion and second, I really don't think that "heaviness" is defined even REMOTELY by anger. In fact, all of the heaviest music I've ever heard has nothing to do with anger at all. For example, I would consider anything in the entire genre of doom or drone to be way fucking heavier than anything done by Slipknot ever and fuck man, most of those bands write songs about wizards, trolls and smoking weed. Never about how pissed off they are at the world.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Jacob on May 27, 2010, 08:03 AM
dude, are you trying to piss people off? this is a thread about slipknot and paul gray, if you want to give someone shit for their opinions on heavy music do it elsewhere.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 27, 2010, 08:12 AM
Quote from: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 27, 2010, 04:06 AM
Quote from: Bergerac on May 25, 2010, 11:57 PM
Well, Scissors was my favourite of their songs, and the breakdown at the end I consider to be the heaviest thing done in metal yet. It's not necessarily the loudest, or the fastest, but it's the heaviest because it has the angriest atmosphere of anything.

Not to butt into this sob-fest thread and ruin the mood again, but I'd just like to point out that that is complete bullshit.

First of all, that is completely a matter of opinion and second, I really don't think that "heaviness" is defined even REMOTELY by anger. In fact, all of the heaviest music I've ever heard has nothing to do with anger at all. For example, I would consider anything in the entire genre of doom or drone to be way fucking heavier than anything done by Slipknot ever and fuck man, most of those bands write songs about wizards, trolls and smoking weed. Never about how pissed off they are at the world.
I just listened to that.  I would say the end of "beware" is heavier than that
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 27, 2010, 11:14 AM
Quote from: Variable on May 27, 2010, 08:12 AM
Quote from: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 27, 2010, 04:06 AM
Quote from: Bergerac on May 25, 2010, 11:57 PM
Well, Scissors was my favourite of their songs, and the breakdown at the end I consider to be the heaviest thing done in metal yet. It's not necessarily the loudest, or the fastest, but it's the heaviest because it has the angriest atmosphere of anything.

Not to butt into this sob-fest thread and ruin the mood again, but I'd just like to point out that that is complete bullshit.

First of all, that is completely a matter of opinion and second, I really don't think that "heaviness" is defined even REMOTELY by anger. In fact, all of the heaviest music I've ever heard has nothing to do with anger at all. For example, I would consider anything in the entire genre of doom or drone to be way fucking heavier than anything done by Slipknot ever and fuck man, most of those bands write songs about wizards, trolls and smoking weed. Never about how pissed off they are at the world.
I just listened to that.  I would say the end of "beware" is heavier than that

Wait, listened to what? The every doom and drone band/song ever? Because that sir, I doubt.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 27, 2010, 11:19 AM
It turns me on so much when you agree with me.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 27, 2010, 11:20 AM
I don't agree with you, I fucked up my quote because I'm an idiot.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Variable on May 27, 2010, 11:23 AM
lol, I figured.  I wanted to get that in before you could fix it.

but no you ass.  I listened to the end of scissors like that kid was talking about.  Duh
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 27, 2010, 11:33 AM
Fuck you, I'm hung over as a motherfucker.

Yeah, the end of that song is like really shitty grindcore. And I don't consider grindcore to be...heavy, by definition. I associate heaviness with general thickness of sound. Not tempo or "anger".

Electric Wizard - Funeralopolis (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sO7VP34n2Ps#)

That is heavy. Thick. Burly. Vibrates your entire body.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Jacob on May 27, 2010, 11:35 AM
<3 Electric Wizard
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 27, 2010, 11:48 AM
I can only think of two bands that are heavier than Electric Wizard IMO, and that's Earth and Sunn0))). But I am pretty unable to handle drone. I have to say though, the only time I've ever like Kurt Cobain is when he did a song with Earth.

Earth - Divine and Bright (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDERDV3hhO0#)

Also, Earth's Hex or Printing in the Infernal Method is probably one of my favorite albums ever and would make an unbelievable soundtrack to a western movie.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: fireflyry on May 27, 2010, 03:32 PM
Don't forget Eyehategod.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 27, 2010, 08:17 PM
Oh fuck yes.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Bergerac on May 28, 2010, 01:20 AM
That's because the heaviness I'm talking about is the atmosphere, not 'literal' sonic heaviness you fucking tard.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 28, 2010, 01:58 AM
Then how can you call a song heavy if it doesn't literally sound heavy?
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: defskull on May 28, 2010, 03:48 AM
I'm pretty sure you can call any song heavy.  If a song feels heavy to you then it is.  There's no set definition to what heavy is. 
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: E-Money on May 28, 2010, 03:51 AM
Necrocetaceanbeastiality, thanks for sharing that Electric Wizard song!  Shit looks prettty cool, I had never really given them a chance. 
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 28, 2010, 04:02 AM
Quote from: stapezee on May 28, 2010, 03:51 AM
Necrocetaceanbeastiality, thanks for sharing that Electric Wizard song!  Shit looks prettty cool, I had never really given them a chance. 

Oh man, Electric Wizard is unbelievable. Get Dopethrone and Come my Fanatics.
Title: Re: R.I.P Paul Gray
Post by: E-Money on May 28, 2010, 04:16 AM
Quote from: Necrocetaceanbeastiality on May 28, 2010, 04:02 AM
Quote from: stapezee on May 28, 2010, 03:51 AM
Necrocetaceanbeastiality, thanks for sharing that Electric Wizard song!  Shit looks prettty cool, I had never really given them a chance. 

Oh man, Electric Wizard is unbelievable. Get Dopethrone and Come my Fanatics.

I will for sure man, I dont know why I hadn't heard of them.  definitely gonna check them out