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Title: R.I.P No More Sugar.
Post by: Vesanic on Jul 14, 2010, 10:18 PM
I just received this message a couple of minutes ago:

I don't really know what your relation was to this account, but I've seen that you've talked to him a lot, and I thought I'd share with you that "No More Sugar" aka Carl Detamore passed away on Monday morning.. I don't really know if he has friends on here or how to get a hold of them, but you responded to him a lot so I thought you'd be the person to tell.



R.I.P, bro.
Title: Re: No More Sugar is dead.
Post by: wither-I on Jul 14, 2010, 10:36 PM
holy shit. ive always wondered if someone died on this board if anyone would somehow find out...

soar.
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Post by: theis on Jul 14, 2010, 10:46 PM
Wow, shit...that's really fucking sad! I've always liked him.

Damn...

Who sent you this message, Vesanic?
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Post by: defskull on Jul 14, 2010, 10:51 PM
Wow.  How did he die?  I mean I think it's safe to say that no one here is dying of old age anytime soon.  He had a great taste in music and did seem to be a great person.
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Post by: Vesanic on Jul 14, 2010, 10:55 PM
I don't know how he died. If I get the details, I will share them via PM with the people who really want to know.



@Theis: The rest of the message said that it was his girlfriend.
Title: Re: No More Sugar is dead.
Post by: theis on Jul 14, 2010, 10:57 PM
I wanna know.

Man, it's weird...I didn't even know the person in real life, but I'm super bummed out. No one should die that young.

Life's over before you know it :(
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Post by: Vesanic on Jul 14, 2010, 11:04 PM
I didn't know him in real life either, but I'm bummed out too. He was one of my if not my favorite member on here. And that feels pretty weird. I never thought that someone from here would die. I mean, that I idea never hit my mind.
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Post by: lostpilot on Jul 14, 2010, 11:35 PM
Wow. I'm shocked.
It's very, very sad. He was a good person.
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Post by: Jacob on Jul 14, 2010, 11:46 PM
really sad to hear that, I always liked the guy (or at least his internet persona). rest in peace brother, my thoughts are with you and you loved ones.
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Post by: RoyalDeftonicBoy on Jul 15, 2010, 12:00 AM
Damn that is really sad :( RIP Carl
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Post by: lithium on Jul 15, 2010, 12:43 AM
Was this the guy who typed in italics all the time?
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Post by: Vesanic on Jul 15, 2010, 01:13 AM
Quote from: lithium on Jul 15, 2010, 12:43 AM
Was this the guy who typed in italics all the time?

Indeed.


I'll do the same, just in memory. I'm sure he would love it. ;D
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Post by: defTHE1s on Jul 15, 2010, 02:06 AM
Quote from: wither-I on Jul 14, 2010, 10:36 PM
holy shit. ive always wondered if someone died on this board if anyone would somehow find out...

soar.
yeah, I also have wondered that and it's a coincidence i heard yesterday on the radio that there is a page that has the info for all the internet sites and you decide what to do with them if you pass away (https://www.mywebwill.com/ (https://www.mywebwill.com/))... anyway...
Quote from: Vesanic on Jul 15, 2010, 01:13 AM
Quote from: lithium on Jul 15, 2010, 12:43 AM
Was this the guy who typed in italics all the time?

Indeed.


I'll do the same, just in memory. I'm sure he would love it. ;D
Haha, indeed it's cool, the Main Boss of the company I work at writes in italics too  :P

btw, if you know more details, please PM me Ves, he was a cool guy indeed

and if that's true, well, RIP Carl  :'(
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Post by: bright lights, big city on Jul 15, 2010, 02:18 AM
Rest in peace dude. Sucks that we find out his actual name after he passes away, though.

So yeah, by the way my real name is Mark.
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Post by: oldgentlovecraft on Jul 15, 2010, 03:30 AM
Sad news and didn't think I'd see it on here. Strangely, I had a student pass away recently too, for the first time in six years. 
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Post by: wither-I on Jul 15, 2010, 03:41 AM
Quote from: theis on Jul 14, 2010, 10:57 PM
I wanna know.

Man, it's weird...I didn't even know the person in real life, but I'm super bummed out. No one should die that young.

Life's over before you know it :(
yeah man i saw the topic and my heart sank.

Title: Re: No More Sugar is dead.
Post by: defTHE1s on Jul 15, 2010, 04:30 AM
ests, 6 Users
Users active in past 15 minutes:
defTHE1s, the deft ones, jbayern, No More Sugar, bright lights, big city, buddyboy101

it's 11:29 PM and he's online.... or is she??

gonna try to talk to him..
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Post by: Jacob on Jul 15, 2010, 06:56 AM
well, this could very well be a sick joke. I mean, who wouldn't want to know what people will say about you after you're dead?

I do hope it's not for real, but if it's not I also hope that he has the decency to admit it before too long.
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Post by: Vesanic on Jul 15, 2010, 09:40 AM
Yes, this could be a sick joke too. As I wrote in my first post, IF that is true, RIP brother.
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Post by: Vesanic on Jul 15, 2010, 09:47 AM
Well, I told his girlfriend to add me on facebook to be able to discuss this a little more in a chat room. The SL thing was pretty impersonal to me.

And yes, I think he's really dead. Tons of messages of a kind that you guess, and a funeral is scheduled.
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Post by: Crazylegs on Jul 15, 2010, 10:33 AM
Rest in peace Carl
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Post by: tarkil on Jul 15, 2010, 12:30 PM
R.I.P. indeed then friend
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Post by: Deftones-argentina on Jul 16, 2010, 12:37 AM
Fuck damn, no more sugar (or carl) always seemed a really humble & nice guy. Sometimes I would read his posts and disagree a little with his way of thinking, but he always respected anyone's opinion, and I really value that. He seemed to be way into drugs and depression for lack of sense of purpose (at least that's what I could understand from here), still he always showed signs of hope left. It's truly sad to be informed he indeed lose the battle.
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Post by: Vesanic on Jul 16, 2010, 12:51 AM
So I talked with his girlfriend and I know now how this happened. If someone wants to know, PM me.
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Post by: No More Sugar on Jul 16, 2010, 01:40 AM
I'm sorry if a lot of you thought it was a sick joke since I've been on his account, but this is indeed his girlfriend, Kasee. If anyone wants to talk to me about it and has a facebook, just look up Kasee Hall. The funeral still hasn't been planned yet, but it will be tomorrow, though I doubt any of you really knew him in real life. But either way, he was an amazing person and is already terribly missed. I'm sorry for sounding so impersonal, but I don't really know what to say on here. So like I said, just add me if you'd like to know anything.

RIP Carl<33
Title: Re: No More Sugar is dead.
Post by: No More Sugar on Jul 16, 2010, 01:41 AM
Quote from: No More Sugar on Jul 16, 2010, 01:40 AM
I'm sorry if a lot of you thought it was a sick joke since I've been on his account, but this is indeed his girlfriend, Kasee. If anyone wants to talk to me about it and has a facebook, just look up Kasee Hall. The funeral still hasn't been planned yet, but it will be tomorrow, though I doubt any of you really knew him in real life. But either way, he was an amazing person and is already terribly missed. I'm sorry for sounding so impersonal, but I don't really know what to say on here. So like I said, just add me if you'd like to know anything.

RIP Carl<33

I mean, the funeral is being planned tomorrow. My mistake for the typo.
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Post by: theis on Jul 16, 2010, 01:43 AM
I know I didn't know your boyfriend in real life, but he always seemed like an honest cool dude.

I just wanted to say that I'm terribly sorry about your loss...also on behalf of his family. I know I'm just some random guy from Denmark, but I just wanted to give my sincere condolences.

RIP, buddy.
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Post by: E-Money on Jul 16, 2010, 01:53 AM
Kasee, I'm very sorry for your loss. Even though I don't know Carl, I'm sure he was an awesome dude.  Anyone who has a passion for the deftones like we all do is cool in my book!

RIP, No More Sugar
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Post by: defTHE1s on Jul 16, 2010, 02:49 AM
well, again, my condolences...
i got a PM from his girlfriend, saying that thing about facebook...
too fucking bad man...
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Post by: wheresmysnare on Jul 16, 2010, 02:39 PM
RIP and i'd like to offer my condolences even though my connection with him is pretty distant at best.

Maybe play his favourite tones song, if he was really into tones, he probably filled out a poll here at some point saying his favourite.

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Post by: Jacob on Jul 16, 2010, 03:28 PM
Quote from: No More Sugar on Jul 16, 2010, 01:40 AM
I'm sorry if a lot of you thought it was a sick joke since I've been on his account, but this is indeed his girlfriend, Kasee. If anyone wants to talk to me about it and has a facebook, just look up Kasee Hall. The funeral still hasn't been planned yet, but it will be tomorrow, though I doubt any of you really knew him in real life. But either way, he was an amazing person and is already terribly missed. I'm sorry for sounding so impersonal, but I don't really know what to say on here. So like I said, just add me if you'd like to know anything.

RIP Carl<33

really sorry for your loss, it pains me to hear it's for real. my thoughts are with you and his family.
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Post by: SX King on Jul 16, 2010, 07:21 PM
 R.I.P. Ive only been here for a few months so i never really got to know him but still is sad news.
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Post by: Sea Bass on Jul 21, 2010, 05:00 AM
Rest in Peace.
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Post by: kittyy on Nov 29, 2010, 12:33 AM
Quote from: defTHE1s on Jul 15, 2010, 04:30 AM
ests, 6 Users
Users active in past 15 minutes:
defTHE1s, the deft ones, jbayern, No More Sugar, bright lights, big city, buddyboy101

it's 11:29 PM and he's online.... or is she??

gonna try to talk to him..

LOL.. I always wondered if anyone saw that I was on his account and thought that his death was a joke or something... whoops.
But I just now took the time to read this thread, and I thank you guys for your condolences even though I never got on here to read what you have said.
My computer won't let me on his account at all anymore.. so I can't freak anyone out anymore, haha. But yeahh..
If anyone still has any questions or anything, I can answer them now that I know how to use SL, lol.


Rest In Peace.
<3
Title: Re: R.I.P No More Sugar.
Post by: ToneDef on Dec 08, 2010, 12:27 AM
I don't post here anywhere near as much as I used to, but damn, RIP man.
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Post by: the same sound on Jan 11, 2011, 10:00 AM
please come home, Carl.
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Post by: Fireal1222 on Jan 13, 2011, 05:36 PM
i just noticed this thread out of nowhere.. its really heartbreaking

RIP Carl, your family and friends are in our prayers
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Post by: Eros TBA on Feb 03, 2012, 09:39 PM
R.I.P No More Sugar
Title: Re: No More Sugar is dead.
Post by: the same sound on Apr 02, 2012, 07:57 PM
Quote from: Deftones-argentina on Jul 16, 2010, 12:37 AM
Fuck damn, no more sugar (or carl) always seemed a really humble & nice guy. Sometimes I would read his posts and disagree a little with his way of thinking, but he always respected anyone's opinion, and I really value that. He seemed to be way into drugs and depression for lack of sense of purpose (at least that's what I could understand from here), still he always showed signs of hope left. It's truly sad to be informed he indeed lose the battle.

Wow. I am so surprised how accurately you summed him up from the little information you had of him. Mad respect.