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Offline honeybeewu

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- long term relationship break up.
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+ New relationship
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Offline BillyNo.9

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- long term relationship break up.
+ Vodka.

+ New relationship
+ Bourbon

Good for you

- It's gotten to the point where she just ignores me now. She either thinks it's what will help me get over her, in reality it's just making me more depressed because she gave me the whole "We can still be friends" shit, or she is just being a cold hearted bitch.


Offline Deftones-argentina

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Do whatever you choose, but my advice (and I think everyone's here) is to ignore her back. no matter how much it hurts.


Offline DeftonesNZ

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Do whatever you choose, but my advice (and I think everyone's here) is to ignore her back. no matter how much it hurts.
Yeah this, from my experience even if you got back together now it wouldn't be the same as before and another break up would be inevitable.


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Billy sorry to be so directly,but she ignores you to do herself a favor, not you.

We guys like to think we got some ex boyfriend bonus, but when its over it is over!! And forget that staying friends shit, cause at some point she will have a new guy in her life, and how about you ask her then to meet for a cup of coffee and talk about good old times?
- Not gonna happen man.

If I was you, I'd get rid off everything - delete her number, actually delete her from any device - skype, whattsapp, facebook! Don't call her, don't write her! Get in contact with your buddys and go out tonight, its Saturday!!


Offline chick de la lynch

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What the guy above me said.

The only time I ever ignored a man was when I was trying to get over him. If she cuts off all contact, then she just wants nothing to do with you. A lot of women say "we can still be friends" to soften the blow, which is an awful thing to do because most of the time they don't mean it.

The best thing you can do is move on. Take a little time to sulk, then buck up and go back to living. It's hard at first, but it gets easier over time.


Offline BillyNo.9

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Thanks guys. I'm sorry to be such a bitch about it but it's just eating me up and I have no one to vent to.


Offline chick de la lynch

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No one handles heartbreak well, especially when the wound is still fresh. It's better to get the feelings and bitching out now, then letting it fester over time. It'll get easier, I promise.


Offline BillyNo.9

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+ It's getting better I guess?
- started smoking/ drinking vodka.


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« Last Edit: Apr 24, 2013, 01:27 AM by lftpp »


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Offline BillyNo.9

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Offline lftpp

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Offline BillyNo.9

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+ Went for lunch with my ex and we made out in her car afterwards. What is going on.
- Then she tells me later that night that she's hanging out with this guy she's kinda been seeing. ouch.
« Last Edit: Apr 04, 2013, 12:18 AM by BillyNo.9 »


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