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Offline honeybeewu

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My life has turned to absolute shit. I lost my love and she won't let me speak to her.

Hang in there. I just went through a divorce from the man I was with for 13 years. It was the absolute WORST (and now I'm realizing) BEST thing to ever happen to me.

Things will get better. Be open to it.  ;)


Offline BillyNo.9

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That does sound awful, glad you're being optimistic now though. The initial bombshell phase is killing me, and I have a tiny bit of hope but I'm scared it'll be no good.


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That does sound awful, glad you're being optimistic now though. The initial bombshell phase is killing me, and I have a tiny bit of hope but I'm scared it'll be no good.

Bombshell phase SUUUUUUUUUUCKS it. There's tons of panic, and overreacting happening there... but it's necessary to get through.

There's no other way to look at it. But that phase, like everything else - Passes. 

Optimism really helps... you've gotta be open to accept what's next... be it her coming back and you fixing things, or be it something else you never saw coming.

I learned SOOOO much from my prior relationship - and knowing that helps me move on with no regrets... just life experiences. If it wasn't with him. it'd have been with some other maniac LOL.

I wish you the Bestest!


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That does sound awful, glad you're being optimistic now though. The initial bombshell phase is killing me, and I have a tiny bit of hope but I'm scared it'll be no good.

dude, stay well, and keep your mind clear


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Offline sing blue silver

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That does sound awful, glad you're being optimistic now though. The initial bombshell phase is killing me, and I have a tiny bit of hope but I'm scared it'll be no good.

Dude I went through one of the worst break ups I've ever heard of with a girl I was intent to marry about 5 years ago. Trust me, it gets better. Shoot me a message on Facebook if you wanna talk.


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+ Deftones tonight!!!!!!


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Bright Lights !..Why the fuck are you so damn awesome? Cant you be a piece of shit sometimes?



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+ gonna go blow $50 on Game of Thrones beer
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They have their own beer?!?!


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+ i love the fact that some songs just never get old.


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+/- Delta Machine...don't know if I'm diggin this album as much as the others


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- long term relationship break up.
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